Bottom line - San Francisco singles aren't looking to settle down too soon. Sure, people "live" here, but the men and women of SF always seem to be traveling.For instance, you can go on two great dates with someone and then the next day you will find out that they have to travel for the next month.I've heard my friends brag about having four dates lined up in one week.
Whether you’re waiting a day to respond to emails, three days to follow up on a date, or returning phone calls when you “only have two minutes to talk but wanted to squeeze you in,” we all pull this card at one point or another. Because there is nothing complimentary or encouraging about being too busy for someone—especially if he’s a guy gutsy enough to ask you out.If you’re interested, try smiling and laughing at his jokes (the funny ones, at least) instead.Sending yourself flowers is a party trick for your benefit, not his.For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term "ghosting," urban dictionary defines it as: "The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date.This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just "get the hint" and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested." Unfortunately, ghosting has become a common dating practice and tends to happen more often than not.Like many other women living in San Francisco, I'm intelligent, career-driven, highly motivated, attractive and (yes, you probably guessed it) single.The San Francisco dating scene is truly bizarre, which is why I've blogged about my experiences dating here a few times.Bottom line - When it comes to dating apps, you should try to focus on finding one person you might have a connection with, rather than jumping around all the time and swiping right. I was chatting about dating with a married friend of mine.I told her that the men in San Francisco just don't want to commit.Besides, a guy whose attention is grabbed by what is called “flocking” makes for an easily distracted admirer.Instead, let your confidence and genuine quirks speak for themselves; the right guy is bound to take notice.