They do this in a way that a fresh-faced 20-something cannot, since he’s too busy trying to look like an adult (in an ill-fitting suit) to properly act like one.
As long as such a man is not too old, parents will appreciate his ability to converse knowledgably on subject matter on which younger men lack understanding. If you’re in someplace like NYC, you understand how big of a draw this is coming from your cramped, Bushwick abode.
An older man and younger woman relationship can work wonders for women who are looking for men who will stay present with them, who are calm and stable and who have spent time building their lives independently.
When a younger woman finds the right older man for her, these foundations can make for a soulmate type of love match.
Dating older men can be an experience unto itself and comes with perks you may have never imagined before.
Because young women are definitely way more mature than their male counterparts of their age, yet still youthful enough to question many aspects of their lives, an older man can be foundational in helping to know themselves better, experience love and build a life together that’s based on passionate and mutual love.Guys just coming out of academia or at their very first grown-up job may not get this (unless they’ve had a tough life, in which case they’re basically an “older man”).Younger men will take you to a low quality, over priced restaurant if they want to impress you.With more time to perfect their technique (and less sheer relief at the fact that they’re getting laid at all), these men know where to touch, and for how long.Girls age at a rate much faster than their male counterparts.You have to do it a lot less frequently, as the older one gets, the less one spends on friend time.Also, it will take place in much more pleasant venues, like a nice restaurant instead of a filthy dive bar (but don’t completely forsake the filthy dive bars).They tend to have more of it than the guys your own age. As annoying as it can be to have some man hold the door open for you every time you enter a building, it’s a gesture of feminine appreciation that has more or less evaporated amongst the younger generation due to progressive ideologies (which, don’t get me wrong, are a good thing overall).It’s unlikely that your older man will share his home with a couple of unruly slobs he calls his best friends.Things that men in their 20s can never understand, older men can articulate in one, wisdom-filled sentence.Understanding the meaning of delayed gratification comes with years of hard work to attain the position in life you’ve been after.