“If you're an important part of [this] man's life, he will want you to meet his friends, so he can show you off to them." Next time he mentions his posse, ask to meet them!
If he starts initiating the convos, awesome—you’ll know he is interested. Unless (and this is a big “unless”) there are other ladies around. Chatting it up with other women while you’re around him is totally rude, but there’s the possibility that he doesn’t even it as flirting. Let him know that it’s not cool to flirt in front of you— and be sure to use the word “flirt” so that he knows how you view it.“It's hard sometimes, especially when you like someone and feel a connection.However, it is vital to allow the man to pursue you.A guy who leaves you on the line just isn’t worth it.After all, you want a man who romantic; he held your hand and gave you a kiss.We all know the guy (or guys) who plays uncool, perplexing and completely ridiculous mind games that leave you wondering, “WTF?!” While it’s generally best to stay away from these mystifying men, sometimes it can be worth sticking it out with a confused cutie who may just need a little direction.But the next day, he seemed kind of weird and distant. “It sounds like he's probably unsure of his feelings, or the feelings he experienced the night before may be something so new to him that it may be making him feel a little scared,” says Suzanne Oshima, a matchmaker and dating coach at Single in Stilettos.Whether he’s feeling shaky about his emotions or your awesomeness intimidates him, one thing is certain—you won’t know for sure until you talk to him (and over text! In person, gently ask him what’s up with his behavior: “Hey, Mark, you’ve been acting a little distant lately. ” He may open up and have an amazing heart-to-heart with you.But when should you stick around, and when should you run out the door?Here are seven mind games guys play and how to deal.