Some singles don’t bother to look for a spouse, believing God will bring the person to them, while others are forever on a search for one, fearing they may miss him or her.There should be a balance, as we remember that God is perfectly loving (Ephesians ; 1 John -18) and perfectly sovereign over every situation, desire, and need (Psalm 1; Romans -39).A Christian man should take the lead in relationships and making sure their relationship glorifies Christ in all things.A Christian woman should let the man take the initiative as the leader God made him to be.For these people, it may be wise to consider other methods.
Once we have these common struggles sorted out, we can begin to pursue a woman, or be pursued by a man, with an eye towards marriage.
Each has its pros and cons, and none is right for everyone.
Before beginning any of these methods, we should begin in prayer, asking God whether it is the step He wants us to take.
Some of these people are trying to con the men and women they meet.
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