(been separated 1.5 yrs) I recently began dating a man who is on parole for conspiracy to commit robbery.
However, my ex has threatened to take custody away from me of our child if I EVER introduce my boyfriend to our daughter.He has a pretty extensive criminal record, but nothing involving domestic violence or children.The only thing he has involving children is corruption of a minor for committing a robbery when he was 18 with a person that was 16.If you've committed a crime, and are worried about the potential consequences, you need to be speaking to an attorney and ONLY an attorney about such matters, lest a blatant confession in a public space come back to haunt you. When her father and I were together and he hit me in front of her, I left him...99% of my reason for leaving him was because I want her in a good environment.You need to be aware that because you're still married, by default, your husband is going to be the legal father of the child you're carrying. I have never been arrested, never tried ANY drugs not even marijuana, I don't smoke and I don't drink, I don't yell at, cuss at or hit my child. He committed retail theft before I met him and he now works and does the right thing.I run a stable home, I have no criminal history, I've never even gotten a ticket.However, when my ex husband cheated on me, I hacked his ex girlfriends facebook and email to keep tabs on whether or not they were contacting each other still. He says that he'll tell her about it and get her to press charges against me so that he can get custody of my daughter. Then I found out via a mutual friend that he had been in prison! I confided in a few close friends, most of them warned me to steer clear, told me I’d made the right decision. Some things he’d said then made sense; He had no passport! But I couldn’t sleep for a week, I tossed and turned and felt so unsettled. I then spoke to my sister- in-law who’s a probation officer. Both in our 40’s, he wasn’t my usual type but there was something about him. I did some research, read things online, looked at the Unlock website and forums.