A: Actually, the best thing for you to do would be to leave your son out of it."At age 9, children are most concerned about getting the love, care, and attention that they need," notes Robin Goldstein, a Potomac, MD- based child-development specialist."If you start to talk to your son about bringing a stranger home, it could trigger all sorts of anxious thoughts and negative feelings on his part."Rather than create a situation like that, try to keep your dating life separate from your life with your son," Goldstein advises.For example, plan to meet your date at the movie theater or restaurant instead of at your house.
Remember, too, to remind your son that he'll be having fun while you're out.
Your previously prudish mother who ran background checks on your high school boyfriend (and his parents) may decide it's a good idea to invite a man she met online to fly across the country and stay at her house for two weeks.
While you may be thinking "Craigslist Killer," your parent is an adult, and can make his or her own decisions, or mistakes.
One thing that makes the process even harder though is when you parents start to date other people.
When your Mom starts dating other guys or your Dad starts dating other women, it’s hard to get past the initial “ick” factor” let alone learn to cope with the whole dating thing.