Why don’t you give me your regular email address so we can reach other more easily?
” You want to take the email offline because it builds momentum in the budding relationship. In addition, when you take the email exchange off site, you reduce the chances for either one of you being distracted by other singles while corresponding with each other.
Talking to someone on the phone is one way to pre-screen your dates; it’s a way to increase your chances of going on a date versus walking into a weird, awkward one.
Would you rather go on a series of mediocre, interview, coffee-type dates or one great date a week?
Naturally, as we grow fabulously older, women are going to meet many more divorced men than we did in our 20s.The idea is to make a nice long list of 20-30 singles when you are browsing. After reading a bunch of profiles with the intent to contact them, I got tired of browsing and logged out before I wrote any messages. But with your list, you have already decided who to write to so you can focus on writing to them.Write to a handful of singles each week; if they don’t write back, you can cross them off your list. This way, you will always have someone you are interested in talking to.When you have more fun dating, you will be more motivated to dating until you find love.Candace is giving away a FREE gift just for Meet Mindful readers to help you be more successful at dating.Dating is a numbers game, so the only way to guarantee that you find love is to keep dating.By following this method—making a favorites list, followed by emails on and off the dating site, leading to a phone call—you will have more fun dating.This is like bringing your date to a singles event, you don’t want that! As a general rule, women (or the feminine figure in the relationship) like to be pursued.So, to the masculine energies who are reading this: court your partner, be assertive, ask for a number and set up a time to talk.About the Author: Candace Wong Are you using technology to find love?Feel like you are running out of men to date and frustrated by the non-committals but ready for a real relationship?