That’s the entire essence of this blog; rather than complaining about why men should change (which they should!
), it’s more powerful to understand the people you’re trying to date.
I tend to keep my focus on this site primarily to things that are as broadly applicable as possible -- things you can do no matter who you are or where you are in life to do better with women.
But the other day I had a reader write in asking about dating in college, and I thought the topic might be on worth getting a post up on.
There are legions of folks that have never stepped foot in such a place and many of them are your friends with darling grandchildren of which you have none. And you toss all that stuff in the corner, and go to bed. But they still will be nice and smile and curse your name under their breath.
Hell they even invited me over for Xmas eve dinner.
If you’re going to understand the male dating experience, a great place to look is online, where, generally, as in real-life, men are the pursuers and women are the pursued.
According to this juicy infographic, 69% of men got rejected before the first date.
However, as I have perused the profiles of my possible “matches” on the dating sites, I am daily amazed at what I see men putting on their “profiles”.A lot of the growing pains of being a young single and meeting girls has passed me by in this time.I've been on 2 dates in my whole life - both when I was 17 years old.He writes: Dear Chase, First off, terrific website.I haven't found anything on the web like the quality of articles you write and the depth you explore.For a 21 year old guy, what is the best way of throwing myself into single life?Much of the dating advice out there seems aimed for an older audience than myself. And if you're not in college, well, you might just want to give this one a read anyway -- a lot of the things I'm going to recommend you don't necessarily need an alma mater to pull off.Yep they hate me and don’t understand landscaping, the trials of the adult store, or lube – yes or no? ” Oh yeah, he’s te chef, or the mechanic, or whatever…Obviously I do not take this as seriously as I should……. I have met few wonderful guys one in particular, that made me really turn the corner on how life should be.He was way younger than me, adorable, funny and just in town for a few weeks. He really was fabulous…then we get to the rest,,,lol I love the guys tht pick a body part and want to define you by that (NOT…kidding! or how about that dude that said he “liked my teeth” REALLY?After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.