If you do, you may very well break up shortly after the weekend, and one or both of you could get hurt. Spend time with friends rather than someone too tempting to resist. An adult might profess to be in love when he or she desperately wants to love and be loved.So no matter how you meet, online or off — pace yourself. People often make emotional statements they don’t mean. When that person later calms down and feels less needy, he realizes he doesn’t feel that way after all.It is essential that you hold out and don't give yourself away too easily.Making him wait will increase the attraction that he feels for you and create anticipation and excitement in your relationship. Now that you feel committed to him your secret list of relationship "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" comes into operation.As you start to become more serious and to assert your "rights", he feels the pressure of your expectations of him.No longer is the relationship so much fun for him and he starts to resist or pull away.Are you in a long term committed relationship which isn't as great as you would like and you want to improve it?
Make sure you keep up your own hobbies and interests and spend regular time with your girlfriends.
He may hide himself away from her and when she eventually catches up with him she is liable to give him a piece of her mind.
Her hysterical reaction and her criticism of him is usually the start of dating failure and is probably enough to break the relationship.
If you’ve been seeing one another once a week, suddenly spending the weekend together can be too much, too soon. Instead, have dates that gradually increase in length and frequency.
The same advice applies if you initially meet online.