and maybe learn something valuable about your guy in the process (maybe some need that he still needs met).
But let’s say that you were satisfying his every need.Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.Rather than wanting him to change, the better path is to move towards understanding each other better.But let’s take a completely different side of this…because I know there are women reading this thinking, “Why should a woman do for this flirtatious disrespectful pig of a man? Here’s the deal – you’re asking me this question because you do not find his behavior acceptable. A guy always knows a woman’s limit is measured by how much she’s willing to tolerate.Why would he be having these sexy, flirtatious conversations with these other women?I mean, all of his sexual needs are completely met by you, right? And all of his emotional needs are met by you, so it can’t be that he enjoys the ego boost of feeling desired by a woman…There are times where one person will get their act together because they’re afraid to lose something good or they’re determined to win something good.But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.